As I got deeper and deeper into the book, I discovered that both Leigh Anne and Sean were faced with childhood obstacles such as poverty and death. This came to me as somewhat of a shock because from what I had heard previously about the family, they were in fact very wealthy. Never the less, both Sean and Leigh Anne had to face their own hardships which is where they found how important giving truly was. Sean was raised in a loving family with four children who lived on the modest salary of a gym teacher. Most of Sean's inspiration and love came from his dad, but when Ed Touhy had a stroke the family was left with less than they had ever had before. Sean received a lot of support from his community and that help combined with the strong value of giving his dad had filled him with made for a very ready-to-give man. Leigh Anne was also raised far from rich with an ex-war veteran father who worked in the police force and a mother who worked hard to uphold an interior design business. There was no room for fancy cars and ultra fine clothing when her parents were determined to put two kids through private school as well as making sure Leigh Anne had the ability to attend college. Leigh Anne also was exposed to giving at an early age because her mother firmly put a value on helping others. One of Leigh Anne's close friends, Liz Marable even at one point found herself living with Leigh Anne's family because of her mother's love of helping others. Finding out both of these backgrounds actually made me more understanding of the Touhy's emphasis and love for giving to those around them. As Leigh Anne says, "God gives you money because he wants to see how you handle it". Yes, the family has a private plane and sure they could probably fund an entire school, but I doubt that they would ever have a problem just as easily giving those things up in order to help out someone in a more difficult position. They have instilled these giving values into their children as well; S.J., Collins, and Michael are expected to give to those around them and have now discovered their own love for helping those around them. Leigh Anne and Sean's backgrounds also helps explain the constant array of children coming and going at their house and their immediate love and care for Michael Oher. Michael hit a soft spot with both Sean and Leigh Anne, so their acts of kindness towards him were simple gestures at first, but soon grew to the love and respect they now have as a family.
Monday, January 10, 2011
Free Reading Post 1
For my outside reading I chose to read In a Heartbeat, the story of the Touhy family and their incredible journey through their lives as well as the taking in and adoption of their son, Michael Oher. The Touhy's have recently shared their story on another global level; the popular box office hit, The Blind Side. While the movie was the outer layer of their story, Sean and Leigh Anne Touhy decided it was important to let the country and even the world into the whole story about their trials, tribulations, and the importance of family and love. When I first saw the Blind Side, without a doubt I was moved by the story; it was a great movie as well as stacked with a cast who portrayed the family in a way that the audience couldn't help but love. However, I couldn't help but think that this family might have been too good to be true. Allowing a young black boy into your home without much knowledge about him or where he has come from, especially in the deep south and the community the Touhy's lived in, seemed like some sort of godsend. As I began to read the actual book written by the parents of this NFL superstar, I realized that this was no sudden act of kindness, but rather the same giving that Sean and Leigh Anne were used to. I was instantly moved by their message of giving as opposed to receiving and their ability to look beyond what is on the surface to find something beautiful.
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Thursday, December 16, 2010
Abortion
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Death Penalty #3
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Monday, November 8, 2010
Clifford Boggess and the Death Penalty
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Monday, October 25, 2010
Bullying
Bullying has literally been around for centuries. Whether it was pushing books out of a "nerds" hands, actually physically hurting someone, or simply calling another person names, it exists and has existed all around the world. I think it is completely unrealistic to believe that the entire problem is going to completely be solved considering as time goes on, bullying gets more "sneaky", more high tech, and more dangerous.
When we talked about the case of United States vs. Lori Drew, the bullying wasn't even kids on kids, it became something grown adults took part in. Lori Drew was the mother of a young girl who went to school with Megan Meier, an 8th grader at Immaculate Conception School in Missouri. Drew wanted to see if Megan had been saying negative things about her daughter on MySpace, so she created a fake account and pretended to be a boy named Josh Evans. After a little time of flirting and creating a relationship, Josh told Megan that the world would be a better place without her and he no longer wanted to be her friend. These actions ultimately led Megan to kill herself. The main thing that truly gets to me about this case, is the fact that a 47 year-old woman had nothing better to do with her life than terrorize a 13 year old. That is the textbook definition of pathetic. It doesn't matter that Drew thought Megan was saying nasty things about her daughter because as a mother, Drew should have used the opportunity to teach her child that sometimes fighting back is not the answer, but rather deal with the problem as a mature and growing girl. Instead, Lori Drew paved the way for her daughter to never leave high school, even as a 47 year-old woman. Drew was convicted but then acquitted for charges of violating the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act, but not charged for her direct actions in harassing the young girl who took her life as a result of this woman's actions. This in some ways is the perfect example of how bullying has taken a dangerous turn, it is no longer about fighting your own battles because in some cases the players aren't following the rules.
When we were watching the MTV series, If You Really Knew Me, I was surprised at how strongly I believed that challenge day could be a real solution to the entire bullying problem. I do not think that bullying is necessarily a problem at Deerfield, but that is not to say that people don't start drama, girls don't say nasty things to each other, or that people are made fun of. As horrible as it may sound, I somewhat think that those actions are part of growing up because you need to go through those things to realize how juvenile it is as an adult. There are always going to forms of bullying taking place, but I really believe that Deerfield has implemented a policy that is enforced; zero tolerance when it comes to bullying or harassment. With all that being said, some schools (like the ones Jamie Nabozney attended) really have no control, or choose not to take control, of bullying problems. I think that programs like challenge day are real solutions to this problem because it eliminates the lecturing aspect that so many kids have experienced when the topic of bullying is brought up. Challenge day is interactive and gives students an opportunity to see that they may have more in common with the people they bully than they might originally think. It gives a personal addition to people who may not be seen as human on a daily basis.
The problem of bullying can't be eliminated completely, it just is not a realistic goal. However, we can work to find effective and working solutions to keep the problem under control.
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Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Students and the Fourth Amendment Response
While I truly believe that the ideas of the Fourth Amendment should be held to a high and serious standard, I do believe that the perameters laid out by the Supreme Court are both reasonable and necessary. The overall idea of the search of a student is well within the guidelines needed to keep students, teachers, and the school safe and well protected. In some cases, the search of a student may include that of a random drug test conducted in an extracurricular setting.
In the case of Vernonia vs. Acton, it was stated that when signing up for sports within a High School, students are willingly subjecting themselves to a lack of privacy such as changing, showering, and traveling with the team. When a student is knowingly signing up for a sport that involves a lack of privacy, who is to say that the school cannot then take necessary actions to ensure that their students are not taking part in illegal or harmful activity. While i personally don't agree with the idea of drug testing in a high school enviornment, I do understand why the courts would rule it within Constitutional rights to do so. Privacy cannot be an arguement when the idea of privacy is already halfway out the door.
The Supreme Court stated after the case of NJ vs. TLO and Vernonia vs. Acton that a warrant or probable cause was not necessary for the search of a student as long as the seach was reasonable as well as that drug testing was within Constitutional rights of the school to do so. After looking over the evidence that was presented in the cases as well as the debate in class, I have to say that I agree with the stance the Supreme Court has taken on drug testing within a High School enviornment.
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